It’s meaningless because she’s heard it a THOUSAND times before. Women are dying for men to notice them for something OTHER than their looks. They want to be noticed for who they are and what they value. Therefore, read her profile and compliment her on something other than her appearance like her writing style or how she expresses herself.
This will set you LIGHT YEARS apart from other men and increase her desire to write you back. Make Her Laugh - The internet has the unfortunate taboo of being associated with freaks and losers. Show her you’re not one of them by making her LAUGH. Not only does laughter feel good, it releases tension, strengthens the bond between two people and helps create that emotional connection women crave so much.
Now imagine you joined a dating website. What would happen then? Right, it would be TEN times worse. In the real world, only the brave guys will approach women who are attractive. But with online dating, the element of FEAR gets removed completely. It’s open season on hottie spamming. Therefore, make sure your email doesn’t get lost in the sea of boredom that makes up a woman’s inbox. Stop doing what every other guy does and be different . How do you stand out? That leads me to item #2... 2. Send Her An Email That Gets Her Attention... First, you need to get yourself in front of her eyes BEFORE she gets bombarded with 50 boring emails from other guys.
Never give her the good stuff all up front or she’ll lose interest and move on to someone else. Read Her Profile - Most men compliment women solely on their looks . Women have become so accustom to this that when a guy says she’s beautiful or sexy, it goes right through her.
She needs confirmation that her first impression of you was spot on. If your email and profile appear out of sync she’ll experience that “disconnect” sensation that just doesn’t feel right.
To do this, your email needs to incorporate these three elements: Curiosity - The purpose of the first email is to break the ice, not to tell her your life story.
Ask her out too soon and she’ll feel that you’re pushing her too quickly. Ask her too late and she'll think you’re too shy and don’t have the balls to ask her out at all. I also learned that you have to set a woman up emotionally FIRST, before you ask her out. After a lot of testing, tweaking and trial and error I’ve managed to get this process down to about a week.
Once she opens your email, you must connect with her on an emotional level. Think of it like a roller coaster. If you take her on a high octane, emotion inducing ride, she’ll associate those feelings of excitement and adventure with you .
It doesn’t make a woman FEEL anything when she reads it. This means good news for you because when a woman notices your profile is DIFFERENT than the 50 other morons she’s seen this week, it’ll be a breath of fresh air.
Second, you have to get her to actually READ your email. That’s the purpose of your headline. Its job is to grab her attention and arouse curiosity so that she feels compelled to read your email and learn more about you.
Now here’s the best part... Most guys don’t have a clue how to do this with their dating profile. They throw it together so fast, it becomes a jumbled mess of dull facts about their boring little lives.
Create that same sensation when she first reads your email by CONTROLLING how you communicate with her.
4. Dial Up The Attraction & Ask Her Out... Now here's the tricky part... How do you transition from the online world to the real world in a way that feels NATURAL to a woman? I discovered that it’s all about the TIMING.
She’ll say “Wow, this guy gets it...” which will not only push her to respond, but it will get her writing you FIRST.
Don’t let that happen. Remember, your profile acts as your 24 hour presence on the site. Every woman you contact will read it, so it must describe who you are in a COMPELLING manner and demonstrate your VALUE as a man.
If enough of these idiots get to her before you do, she’ll get fed up, delete her account and never try online dating again.